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Editor's Note: Hundreds of Ann Landers' loyal readers have requested that newspapers continue to publish her columns. These letters originally appeared in 1999.

Dear Ann Landers: I have been with "him" for five years. We met through my brother. I ended up jumping from a shaky relationship into one with "him" — which everyone knows is not the way to go.

For a while, it was OK, but then we started to argue a lot, and it's still that way. "Him" has a hot temper and flies off the handle easily. He doesn't help with anything in the house. I do the laundry, cleaning, cooking and grocery shopping. I pay all the bills, and he pays the mortgage.

I love "him," but don't know if I should stick around. He puts everyone and everything ahead of me and has no consideration for my feelings. He often criticizes me in front of friends and family, which is humiliating. I work and am financially independent. Should I leave him? — Torn in Winnipeg, Canada

Dear Winnipeg: You do the marketing, cooking, cleaning, laundry and pay all the bills. He criticizes you, humiliates you in front of family and friends, has no consideration for your feelings, and pays the mortgage. Hello-ooo there! Anybody home? For heaven's sake, woman, pay the mortgage yourself and dump "him."

Dear Ann Landers: Here's another one for your "stupid judge" collection. I guess it pays to get drunk in New Orleans.

If this story had not appeared in a respectable paper like the San Angelo Standard Times, I would not have believed it. I hope you print it. — J.H., San Angelo, Texas

Dear J.H.: No comment from me, but here's the Associated Press story. Thank you for passing it on.

A drunken bicyclist was seriously injured when he ran a stop sign and pedaled into the path of a police cruiser speeding to respond to a call. The intoxicated bicyclist was awarded $95,485. The judge ruled that the police officer was partially to blame for the collision with the 58-year-old bicyclist, who suffered two broken legs and a fractured skull.

The bicyclist's lawyer said the ruling proves that "drunks have rights, too." The man had a blood-alcohol level of 0.13, which exceeds the legal limit of 0.10. The lawyer argued that the police officer could have avoided the accident had he not been driving so fast. The officer said his siren was blaring and his lights were flashing when he hit the intoxicated bicyclist. The officer plans to appeal.

Gem of the Day (Credit Chicago columnist Zay N. Smith): Guns don't kill people. They just make it a lot easier.

What's the truth about pot, cocaine, LSD, PCP, crack, speed and downers? "The Lowdown on Dope" has information on drugs. Send a self-addressed, long, business-sized envelope and a check or money order for $5 (this includes postage and handling) to: Lowdown, c/o Ann Landers, c/o Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. Century Blvd., Suite 700, Los Angeles, CA 90045. To find out more about Ann Landers and read her past columns, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.

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I have been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and put an expection on me before he will Marry me. Do you think I should have to deal with that? He wants me to find a job with full Benifits and full time hours. I am tired of arguing with this man about the way the economy is right now and how hard it would be to find a job like that. Am I wrong about the way I am feeling? I am thinking about moving out and getting my own place. I can not take the stress anymore. My boyfriend works on computors and will not pay any attention to me on the weekend he tells me he is to busy. What should I do.
Signed Upset
Comment: #1
Posted by: Karen
Sun Feb 7, 2010 9:19 AM
Re: Karen
Karen, Karen, Karen. Gee you're dumb, you know you should drop the jerk, so do it and quit whining!
Comment: #2
Posted by: Joey
Mon Feb 8, 2010 8:55 PM
Touche' Joey
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Posted by: KooK
Tue Feb 9, 2010 9:35 AM
Hi . I FINNALY GOT MY SSI AFTER 15 YEARS ,AND i'M PROUD TO SAY WITHOUT LAWYER.. bUT MY OTHER PROBLEM IS i WANT TO HELP MY BOYFREID AFTER 15 YEARS " bUT HE TOLD ME HE DOESN'T WAT MY HELP! sO NOW HE TOLD ME TO HIT THE ROAD WHEN I GET MY SETTLEMEMNT. NOW IF THAT WAS ANYONE ELSE THEY WOULD BE ON A CLOUD OF HAPPINNESS. WHAT DO U TINK I SHOUD DO ? THANKU ANNE THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I ASK FOR ADVICE SUSAN_CAROTA2001@YAHOO.COM
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Posted by: susie999@2001yahoo.com
Thu Feb 11, 2010 6:33 PM
i REALY NEED YOUR INPUT THANKYOU
Comment: #5
Posted by: susie999@2001yahoo.com
Thu Feb 11, 2010 6:35 PM
Re: susie999@2001yahoo.com. I THINK YOUR CAPS LOCK KEY IS STUCK.
Comment: #6
Posted by: Matt
Fri Feb 12, 2010 12:00 AM
I'm trying to find a copy of the article "Love and Marriage are like a Circle of Satisfaction". Does anyone know of it? Or where I can locate it?
Comment: #7
Posted by: Nancy
Sat Feb 13, 2010 3:09 PM
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