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Dear Annie: I was close to "Bob" in college. Four years ago, when he married "Sue," whom I vaguely knew, I was the only one of his friends to attend her bachelorette party. A few years after their wedding, I flew across the …Read more.
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Dear Annie: I am an addict in recovery. I moved out of state three years ago when I was seeking treatment and completed my program 15 months ago. I have successfully maintained employment for more than a year now.
My three children are still living …Read more.
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Dear Annie: Our next-door neighbors have a wood stove that is their primary heating system. My family is the victim of their invasive smoke. We have put plastic around our windows, but the smoke still enters our house through the vents, electrical …Read more.
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Dear Annie: I am a happily married straight male and am having a problem with a co-worker. "Gil" is a self-proclaimed bisexual. Even though he is fully aware of my orientation, he constantly makes lewd comments to me. He also invites me to …Read more.
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ANNIE'S MAILBOX(R)Dear Annie: My son, "Terry," is 30 and newly divorced with two sons. My husband and I have been helping him since he had a hard time finding a job. He lived with us for three months. My husband (his stepfather) bought him a car and insurance so he could get to work and be able to pick up his boys. In April, Terry moved into an apartment. We paid the security deposit and first month's rent. He found a job in June, but with child support payments, he still had a hard time with the rent, so we continued to help him through the summer. The problem is, in August, he let "Larry" move in with him. Larry is an alcoholic with no job. He has a filthy mouth and is into porn. Terry says he's just "helping him out." We think this is terrible and have decided to stop giving Terry money for rent because we don't want to help Larry. I don't think our grandsons should be around this man. Terry says he doesn't need our permission to let someone move in. I believe if he were paying his own way, it wouldn't be my business. Am I wrong for not wanting to help anymore? — Slapped in the Face Dear Slapped: You are absolutely right. You are not obligated to pay your son's rent under any circumstances. If he chooses to bring an unsavory character into his life, that is his choice, but you don't have to subsidize it. Don't be angry. Be firm and practical. Tell him he can do what he wishes, but he'll be doing it on his own. If you feel you must help him in some way, offer to pay a portion of his child support. Dear Annie: November is Prematurity Awareness Month. My wife and I would like to share the story of our daughter's birth, in the hope that it will encourage women to get prenatal care during pregnancy. Lauren was born at 26 and a half weeks, weighing 2 pounds and 1 ounce, and spent five frightening months in the hospital's neonatal intensive care unit before we could bring her home. Today, Lauren is a healthy, beautiful 5-year-old with lots of personality and a keen intelligence. Her only medical concern is asthma. We are convinced that my wife's prenatal and personal care helped with Lauren's overall health, despite her early birth. We want to warn other parents about the seriousness of premature birth and let them know there are things they can do to lower the chances that their baby will be born too soon. Parents can get information about the warning signs of preterm labor and how to help give their baby a healthy start in life at marchofdimes.com/fightforpreemies. — Densel and Nikki Fleming Dear Densel and Nikki Fleming: We are glad your daughter is a healthy 5-year-old, and we appreciate your letting our readers know about the website so they, too, can give their babies the best possible start. Dear Annie: I read the response to "Doctor in California" and agree that the media put such a spin on many medications that people can be afraid to use them. I am a dog groomer. One day a regular client brought in her dog. It had lost all its hair around the ears, and the skin had turned a bright red. The owner was using a cream the doctor had given her, but it wasn't helping much. She told me the doctor had also suggested steroid shots, but she had refused because she didn't want her pet to "become addicted and gain all that muscle." Holding back a giggle, I assured her it was a different kind of steroid and would help her dog immensely. Two weeks later, the dog's skin was back to normal. — Ginger Dear Ginger: We're envisioning a new canine superhero. Annie's Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie's Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611. To find out more about Annie's Mailbox, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com. COPYRIGHT 2009 CREATORS.COM
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